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10/10/08

We are decision-making animals.....

We are decision-making animals, every one of us.From the moment we wake up and decide what kind of mood we're in to the final choice we make whether or not to floss our teeth at night, we're all making decisions, all the time. I've decided to accept myself the way I am and not worry about what other people think ! I've realized that people who matter don't care and people who care don't matter. In the end, its all about me and who Im trying to be. Me and who I wanna be. Where is the real Me? Did I lose it somewhere along the way?

After you fall into a habit of accepting what other people tell you to think you lose the power to think for yourself. It becomes hard to find friends, to trust people. The reason why it is so hard to find that person that you can call a friend, is because we expect to meet someone just like us and who we find perfect. But really, there's no such thing. It took me a long time to get that you can't make anyone like you or want to be your friend, and if you're trying to be someone else, then you're for sure not going to find that person you're looking for. Because how will someone know you better than anyone else if they don't even know the REAL you?

The truth is, at any point in time, someone , somewhere could be making faces about you. People will judge you by your actions, not your intentions.At the end of the day what really matters are the reviews you are giving yourself. The important thing is to remember that you have to be your own best friend and take care of yourself. Don't fake it for others.The hardest struggle of all is to be something different from what the average human being is!

2 comments:

muslimahh said...

I know I think way too much about how others perceive me. But you're right, either way there will be people out there thinking I'm crazy... :). Thanks for making me think.

hijabee said...

Muslimahh,
Everyone thinks Im crazy too lol :) Are they wrong, are they right? I don't care anymore. I guess as long as I don't feel insane I will somewhat keep my degree of sanity lol.